Where has the time gone? I can't believe it's been 5 months since
I've updated this blog. Life has definitely been crazy. Here's a little
overview of why:
-After our WA vacation in July, we
took it upon ourselves to paint the exterior of our house...by
ourselves. We planned on this being a weekend project. Well, it ended up
taking us at least a month. We spent hours and hour and hours (did I
say hours???) scraping every square inch due to the previous owners
using cheap paint. Then we had to caulk, patch, replace, prime, paint,
and do the trim. I will NEVER paint this house again (or any house for
that matter). I told Ryan we should have had a bonfire to burn the
brushes. Ugh. At least it's done, looks great, and our neighbors got
quite the entertainment watching us for days on end. Our yard was
definitely the social place around 5:30 every day.
-During
this painting fiasco, I was going through a major decision. The school
that Kiera attends was searching frantically for a part time music
teacher. After much prayer I went in to see if they would be interested
in me helping out temporarily or to just test the waters. They ended up
being very willing to work with me and around the first week of August I
was hired! This meant I had 2 weeks to prepare 6 preps, get my
classroom ready, and figure out how life was going to change! It was a
bit hectic to say the least, but I survived and am loving it! It has
been such an incredible blessing to have another income, a wonderful
work environment, a different challenge that has every day a little
different, and the perks of being at the same school as your kids. I am
now working on getting my credits up to date so that I meet the 2 year
requirement for a ongoing certificate. The boys took a little bit to
adjust to the daycare, but now they love it. Every morning they ask
numerous times if it's time for school yet. They would be happy to go
all the time. We still enjoy preschool together at home some mornings
and they get the social interaction afternoons which has been good for
their twin development. The first week they both ended up with hurt
arms. Caleb fractured his left wrist and Joel broke his left
wrist...same bone...same place...same piece of equipment. I am pretty
sure we have been flagged at the orthopedist office! Ah, the joys of
twins!
-Throughout all this my dad's health has been
failing. In October I flew out to WA to be with my family and say my
good-bye's to him. This was extremely difficult, but such a blessing to
see him. He is now on hospice and his health continues to decline daily.
We are very thankful that he is still with us and we love seeing his
smile on Skype! We are looking forward to spending Christmas together
but definitely covet your prayers as we walk through this valley
together as a family. What a blessing it is to know, though, that my dad
loves the Lord and is ready to meet his Savior!
-We
continue to do life together; Kiera started 2nd grade, practicing piano,
giving piano lessons (I now have 4 students), homework, wrestling
matches with daddy, meetings, church activities (Kiera is now in GEMS
which she LOVES), and spending time with my sister and her family over
Thanksgiving. Today we celebrated Caleb & Joel's 5th birthday!
It's hard to believe how fast they have grown. I would definitely say
they had a Super Hero birthday. Batman and Superman are the theme around
here. They wanted to go bowling tonight which was a lot of fun.
Unfortunately I couldn't beat Ryan this time, so I guess we better get
the Wii bowl out again where I am guaranteed a win! :)
Hopefully these pictures will give you a snapshot of the past 5
months. Thanks for sticking with this long post! I promise to try to be
more faithful in my updates!
On June 14, the kids and I (Sheri) left for St. Paul, MN. We spent
the evening at the Mall of America. The kids didn't know until the night
before that I was planning to do this. To say they had fun was an
understatement! We walked around the entire mall and they were just in
awe of everything. We spent quite a bit of time at the American Girl
store for Kiera. She was in heaven and just drooled over everything!
Next we headed to Legoland for the boys. They had so much fun looking
over all the sets and then we spent some time building things out of
legos. We ended the night at the Nickelodeon fun park. I let the kids
choose 2 rides to go on and they picked the Ferris Wheel and the Balloon
Ride. It was so fun to see their joy and excitement and I loved the
time we spent together. Once our evening was over, we headed to the
Amtrak station to catch the 11:30 pm train to Washington. The kids did
great on the train trip there and back. Unfortunately Joel got altitude
sickness both times we went through the mountains in Western Montana and
Washington. Other than that, they did amazing and handled everything
very well. They slept great each night but I must admit that it was very
stressful for me and I don't think it will be our choice of
transportation in the future. It was an experience that we can say we've
done! Overall we spent over 70 hours on the train. Whew!
When
we were in WA we had a super fun time as always. The weather was GORGEOUS the entire time! I am always overwhelmed by the beauty of the Pacific Northwest. I feel like I just can't soak it in fast enough when I am there. It was great to see my
family and see the kids enjoy being with their cousins. Our time
consisted of fun at the beach, swimming in the backyard, going to the
Children's Museum, Jungle Playland, swimming at the lake, slumber
parties, bonfires with s'mores, hiking in the woods, holding little
cousin Kaiya, Target runs, Red Robin, swimming at the pool, playing
school (because that's what you do in the summer), reading stories with
Opa, fireworks, parades, horseback riding, running in a track meet,
visiting with Great Grandma DeGroot, at least 10 games of Settlers, and
lots and lots and lots of laughing! We made some great memories and it
was never a dull moment when you went anywhere with 8 kids!
Personally
it is always such a refreshing time for me. I love spending late nights
talking with my mom and being spoiled by her. I love the endless
chatting I get to have with my sisters and enjoyed all the Diet Cokes we
enjoyed together! I love all the great meals my mom makes and the yummy
goodies always available. Going in June is always a bonus as it is the
peak of fruit season. Every meal we had a huge bowl of assorted fresh
fruit and I thought we would turn into strawberries after all the fruit
we ate! My favorites were the fresh strawberry pie, fresh blueberry
muffins, and strawberry shortcake. We already miss all the yummy fruit!
Another special experience was being there for my niece Kaiya's dedication. My sister asked if I would sing for it and it was fun to be a part of this special occasion!
Most
of all, I was blessed to spend time with my Dad. A few weeks before we
were to leave for WA (God's plan for us to already have had a trip
planned was amazing, wasn't it?), we received news that my Dad's cancer
had returned. He was diagnosed 6 years ago with Stage 4 colon cancer and
had already beat it several times. Over a year ago he suffered a stroke
and by God' grace and strength was able to make almost a full comeback
from that. To hear the news that his cancer was back was particularly
difficult for all of us. I was anxious to go out and spend time with
him. I was able to be there for his first treatment. I will never forget
praying with him the morning he left for the cancer center. It was
difficult for both of us, but we placed the treatment in God's capable
hands and continue to trust Him for healing and strength in the coming
months. It was hard to see my dad so rundown and sick, but I was
thankful that we still were able to create some great memories together
and enjoy each other's company. I spent a lot of time working in his
yard as he has not had the energy to do that. It seemed like the one
thing I could do to help him and encourage him in his battle. It was fun
one day when some of his siblings and spouses came to help us. We had a
fun yard work party and it was very rewarding for all of us. If you
would like to keep up on his health situation he has a Caring Bridge
site at www.caringbridge.org/visit/ottorouw. We would appreciate your
prayers for all of us in the coming months!
As you can
see we had a great vacation! Ryan was unable to join us this time as he
is very busy getting ready for a week long SERVE project at our church
starting this Saturday. We missed him a ton, but were very happy to
Skype together quite a bit. The kids definitely haven't left his side
since we've been home. I must say that it was WONDERFUL to come home to a
clean house and a fridge full of food! Ryan is so incredibly helpful
and I appreciate all that he does for us! We celebrated our 11th
anniversary on the 6th and I am so thankful for the wonderful father and
husband God has given me. It's been a fun ride thus far and I am
excited to see what else God has planned for us!
Hope you enjoyed the pictures...I decided to put them in a slide show as there were just too many!
Over Memorial Day weekend, Ryan's folks rented a gorgeous cabin up by
Terry Peak in the Black Hills. It was beautiful weather and we had a fun
weekend there with Ryan's whole family. The cabin was big enough for
all of us and had a hot tub (which the kids LOVED), a pool table, foosball, darts, and
lots of hiking spots around it. We spent a lot of time relaxing, playing
Catan and Phase 10, and being with family. On Saturday we spent the day
seeing Homestake Mine (a gold mine that was in operation until 2000 and is now used for cutting edge medical research), Mt. Rushmore, Custer state park, and Crazy Horse. It was fun to
get some hikes in and spend time in the beautiful mountains. We did
decide that we live on the wrong side of the state. There is so much to
do over there! We will definitely have to go back for more sightseeing
(if only the part from here to there wasn't so boring). On our way home
we took the Badlands loop and enjoyed some more hiking and enjoying the
incredible scenery. It was a relaxing weekend and thank Dad &
Mom Link for giving us a gorgeous place to stay! Enjoy these pics from
our weekend...there were just too many to post one by one!
Let me begin by saying I never thought it would be this easy. I think my mom said it best when she stated, "It's about time something went your way!" About a month ago we purchased the boys new bikes. They were getting too tall for the little 12" bikes and needed bigger ones. Because they were so excited to get new bikes, we left the training wheels on them so they could enjoy them awhile. (We were also waiting for the weather to improve). They had a ton of fun riding up and down the street. Finally the weather got consistently warm and I decided it was time to bite the bullet and get those training wheels off. We packed up the little 12" bike minus the training wheels and headed to a BIG parking lot. Joel hopped on the bike and took off. I about fell over. I couldn't believe he did it just like that. I thought to myself, "what are the odds Caleb will do the same?", and so Caleb hopped on and promptly took off. After roughly 3 minutes of being at the park, both boys knew how to ride a two wheeler without tipping over. They were pretty proud of themselves.
The
next hurdle was to try their bigger bikes. A few days later we took
them back to the parking lot to try their big bikes. They were a little
more nervous. Because they had done so well on the little bike, I
figured that once they got going they would be fine. So the plan was for
the boys to ride their bikes in the parking lot while I ran (and got my
workout done too). Ha ha ha. Not so. I would get one started then go
help the other start and the other one would have stopped already. I
could never get both going at once. Finally I got everyone going and I
started running between them. Let's just say the utopian bliss I had
imagined quickly fell apart. Caleb started veering toward Joel with me
in the middle. Eventually I was hurdling boys and bikes while trying to
rescue whomever and whatever without falling on a child. To anyone who
happened to witness this catastrophe: I hope you laughed! I then decided
that we would just practice one at a time. Whew. For all the mom's of
twins out there: TAKE ANOTHER ADULT WITH!!!
After this
little jaunt, we tried again a few days later. I was a little nervous
that they wouldn't be very excited. But the 3rd time was a charm! They
learned very quickly how to start, stop, and make turns. After 5 days of
practicing, they are now riding up and down our street confidently and
with as much gusto and excitement as when they first got the bikes.
YEAH!!!! What a joy it is to see their excitement and pride at knowing
how to ride. Hopefully this will mean lots of family bike rides in the future! Allow me a moment of pure pride at reaching another dreaded milestone with twins! Whew!
This past Wednesday, Kiera's class had a special Mother's Day program for us. When we arrived, each mother received a corsage to wear. When the kids came in, they gave us a gift bag saying it was for all the presents we would receive. For the program, they would do a poem or a song and after each one would bring us something that had to do with that poem. We received flowers, bubble bath, a ceramic tile with their hand print, special projects made specifically for mom, Hershey Kisses, and a hug box. After the program they had refreshments for us...cupcakes, ice cream, mints, and punch. When we were all finished we went outside to release balloons signifying the release of 1st grade! It was such a special time to share with Kiera and we had fun together!
The boys are at a wonderful age right now. They are mostly independent and love playing together. Just today I heard Caleb tell Joel "wait for your best buddy!" They get along great (most of the time) and are loving being outside (FINALLY). We graduated them to bigger bikes which they are SO proud of and are hoping to get training wheels off soon. One of their favorite things to do is hang out at the neighbors when they are outside. As soon as they see them come out, they are over there helping with various yard work. They love helping pick up sticks and mainly chatter to "Grandpa and Grandma Neighbor". I think the neighbors love it and it keeps up a good relationship with them.
A few weeks ago Kiera had her fine arts night at school. Grandma Link happened to be in town helping us with our garage sale so she was able to join us! We got to see lots of projects Kiera had worked on all year, walk through the classrooms, and ended with a music program. It was a fun night and we enjoyed watching Kiera run around with her friends and enjoying showing off all her hard work!
Some of the various projects she worked on this year.
The kite she made with her kite poem.
Kiera and her good friend Brinley
Their Lego city they made...Kiera made the big car front and center.
Here are some pictures from Easter. We went to Ryan's folks for the weekend and had a very relaxing time. Now we are starting to enjoy the warmer spring weather we are FINALLY getting! So long winter!
At the end of February, Kiera was able to celebrate her 7th birthday. Back in the Fall, we had purchased a Groupon for 2 nights at the local Ramkota hotel that has a water park with it. We decided to save this and use it for Kiera's birthday. Since we were swimming for her birthday, she wanted a swimming pool cake. It was actually a very easy cake and I was happy with how it turned out. Kiera invited some friends to swim one of the evenings and then the second day she had her cousin Eli come and spend the day swimming with her. All the kids had a blast swimming and there were always tears when it was time to quit. We had an enjoyable weekend as a family and all had a great time swimming! Enjoy the pictures!
All 3 kids LOVED the slide!
Taking a break to refuel (with cousin Eli)
Cool dude Joel
Crazy Caleb
Kiera's school party
Opening gifts at the family party with Grandpa and Grandma.